Truth. Know who commits the violence and WHY! Even gay men kill their partners or ex partners at much greater rates simikar to het men whom kill women. Murderous Lesbian/Lesbian woman to woman murderous violence is the lowest number showing even through stress and difficulty women resort to murder mostly when its about stopping the months or years of abuse they have recieved from male partners. Whereas men commit acts of physical and sexual violence with much greater impunity part of societies where men rule and women are lesser goods or chattel. Their terrorism upon us keeps us fearful, cowed and controlled. Male run societies are nit good for women or their children. RISE UP SISTERS!!!

Karen Ingala Smith

What could we do if we wanted to hide the reality of men’s violence against women?

Firstly, we might have  a ‘gender neutral’ definition of domestic violence.  Maybe like the UK government which uses the following definition:

“any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are, or have been, intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. The abuse can encompass, but is not limited to: psychological, physical, sexual, financial [and] emotional.”

Not only treating ‘sex’ and ‘gender’ as the same thing, this definition erases sex differences.  It includes the phrase ‘regardless of gender’ when in reality men – as a biological sex-class – are overwhelmingly the perpetrators, and women – as a biological sex-class – are overwhelming the victims of ‘domestic violence’ (more on the differences between male and female victims of intimate partner violence here).  It…

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